Good Friday: What is it all about?

Good Friday is a solemn day.

There is no Mass on Good Friday. Instead we have a service called the Celebration of the Lord’s Passion, where we read again about the suffering and death of Jesus from one of the Gospels. One of the main things we do is to adore the cross of Jesus, by kissing it. Why do we do that?

Well, although it is a symbol of suffering, we know that the cross was the way God chose to save us. That’s why we call this day “Good”, even though it was a sad day. We know that his death was not the end of the story….And kissing the cross shows our love of Jesus and expresses our thanks for his sacrifice.

The most sacred hours during Good Friday are from 12 noon to 3:00 pm, because this is when we believe Jesus was on the cross. They’re sometimes known as the three hours of agony. On this solemn day, you may like to do something to help you think of Jesus. Try and hold a silence in your home (to the best of your ability). Turn off phones, TV, and other devices. Maybe you could pray the sorrowful mysteries of the rosary, read from the Bible, or quietly draw or colour a religious picture, to help you meditate on the suffering and death of Jesus.

There will be the Children’s Stations of the Cross at 12 pm at St Joseph’s, Bishop’s Stortford, and also a 3pm Service at St Joseph’s or at Most Holy Redeemer, Sawbridgeworth. Or your family might like to come and pray in church at another time or watch on live-stream.

You can find the story of Good Friday in John 18: 1 – 19: 42

This longer Gospel Reading is called the Passion, which is the story of Jesus’ suffering and death

Bible Reading - Listen to the story of Jesus' final journey...

The Passion of our Lord, Jesus Christ, according to John

Craft Activity

Making hot cross buns with Mary Berry (BBC Good Food)

You might also like to print off a recipe for traditional Hot Cross Buns

Alternative Activities

  • As a family, watch one of our Children’s Stations of the Cross
  • Go on a prayer walk with your family, thanking God for everything he has given you. You might like to join in with a walk of witness. There is one taking place in Bishop’s Stortford and another in Much Hadham – details can be found here.
  • Stick a cross in your window, as a witness to others
  • And, for those who enjoy their artwork, check out this activity for some Oil Pastel Cross Art
  • Write a prayer list of those you know who are suffering and particularly need to know the deep love of Jesus for them

Good Friday Stations of the Cross

Created during the lockdown in 2021 and presented by Confirmation Candidates

Presented by Isobel Wright and with an accompanying handout to print off and complete

A Prayer to Say

Into your hands, Lord, I give my Spirit

Dear Lord,

Today you went through great suffering for me. You accepted to suffer willingly in order to complete God’s amazing rescue plan.

When things are tough in my life, help me to remember that you understand what I am going through and that you are with me.

On this day, let me take time to be with you. Help me to say sorry for my sins.

I may never understand the greatness of the sacrifice you made, but I love you.

Thank you for dying for me.

AMEN

 

Songs for Today

“Father, into Your Hands” (Psalm 31) by Edwin Fawcett

“Lord, by Your Cross and Resurrection” by CJM Music